Finding Conscious & Complete Partners—Class 5 :: Attractive Transformation
Making heartfelt choices requires seeing ourselves as autonomous, capable and Co-Creative. We need to cross over the threshold where we are no longer blinded by our personality needs. This requires detaching from our Safety, Security and Self-Importance needs. These needs drive our Instinctive, Intellectual and idealized Attractions. Making this transition into accepting our Intuitive, Unified Creative Nature requires letting go of our identification with our Defenses and appreciating who we are. The more we can step into balanced interactions with others and not lose ourselves in their issues or needs, the more supportive we can be. This is because, whenever someone operates from their whole, it encourages others to respond in a more complete manner. This, of course, is against all of our personality training. It requires ignoring former Attractive impulses that do not work.
Conscious Attractions can be broken down into Cellular Affinity (where we know how to relax with our partners), Vibratory Response (where we learn how to merge without losing ourselves) and Vibratory Expansion (where we learn to hold ground together so our creative projects can emerge). Each Attraction creates an opportunity for bonding with others on physical, intellectual and intuitive levels, respectively. This promotes Spacious Presence, Pregnant Duration and Skillful Means, which are the foundations for Common Neutral Ground. By becoming an independent and creative agent using these tools, it opens up our ability to learn the skills of Universal Dominion, Mutual Accomplishment and Conscious Participation. This helps others (who are conscious) to see and appreciate us for who we are.
Attractive Transformation helps us to let go of all the previous ways we justified our circumstances. Instead of fixating on Attachments, Positions and Projections, we realize that we need to define ourselves in our own terms and let others meet us as they are able. We discover that many of our dating problems were because we were fixating on the past and trying to protect ourselves from our past mistakes. When we take ownership of who we are, we realize it is our own lack of preparedness that has prevented our ability to choose conscious partners. We need to be the change we seek! We also come to understand that the Universe has always been offering possibilities for companionship, but we have been too unconscious to see or acknowledge these opportunities.
Facilitators: Larry Byram & Sandra Jaquith
Class Schedule: Saturday, July 28th 2018, 12pm-5pm MT (no lunch break)
Location: 2945 Center Green Court, Ste. E, Boulder, CO 80301 (or by webinar)