Make The Best Choices Quickly
Choosing partners has never been so difficult. The pressure to find the right one has led to many mistakes, mistakes that seemed to be repeated more than once. Candidates for dating have become harder to qualify, and it now takes hours to do an effective search. The key is to know what to look for based on matching your natural creativity. Many individuals seek safety, security and self-importance, objectives and motivations that do not stand the test of time. Even more of us do not recognize that ‘excitement choices’ are parental substitutes, intensity choices are based on opposite defenses that separate us, and people who want to be in control look for partners with anxiety who will not be able to satisfy them.
As conscious individuals, do we have the time to make more poor choices? What Higher Alignment is suggesting is that you choose potential partners with the same Primary Creative Expression, with similar defense styles, and with WorldView levels. It is helpful to have similar communication styles, decision-making approaches, and pacing speeds, but these are not required for conscious relationships. Depending upon your gender identity and orientation, having some sexual chemistry underlying is important. It is important to recognize that Creative Chemistry is the key new element that prevents us from getting caught is poorly functioning, co-dependent relationships. What we want to avoid as much as possible is relationships without abundant, quality, autonomous, creative options.
This class also discusses the state of dating services and how and what to look for that can increase your effectiveness while reducing your time requirements. Red flags have increased due to the challenges of identity verification, fragmentation of dating sites to serve different communities, and the poor matching algorithms. We need to recognize that we need to take charge of our candidate selection process and employ assistants to focus us on the right partners. This course is recommended to be used in connection with the Creative Uniqueness class, where Compatibility Factors are described. It is possible to use this as a stand-alone class if you hire partner selection support.
Conscious Dating Decision-Making is a 12-week Zoom series on Thursdays at 6:00 p.m. MDT, from May 19 through August 4. Join us on Thursday May 12 at 6:00 p.m. MDT for our FREE INTRO to Conscious Dating Decision-Making. We will discuss the Better Romantic Relationship Choices.