FCCP Finding Complete, Conscious Partners

Requirements For Co-Creative Relationships:

Fear in dating causes individuals to lie rather than risk rejection. The desire to be accepted drives us to present only what is appealing about us. Self-importance (or a lack of confidence) encourages us to negotiate for the best deal, despite the odds, believing we may not be able to easily find similar partners. What these compromises miss is the power of Creative Self Affirmation to attract individuals like us, to us. Instead of pursuing a random numbers game, we need to manifest time, energy and space dedicated to being the partner we want to have. This occurs when we transform our Attractions from Excitement to Aliveness, Intensity to Wisdom and Anxiety to Awareness. We are aided when we learn how to identify individuals with similar Compatibility Factors. We also discover how we have been caught in Co-Dependent Attractions that drain us. Letting go of parental patterns, opposite attractions and the need to be superior or better prepared in a relationship frees us up to wisely choose appropriate partners.

The image of dating has taken a hit because of unrealistic romantic expectations. By making love personal, we deny the unity we seek with our partners. Conscious individuals need to prioritize Creative Chemistry over sexual chemistry to manifest long-term partnerships. When we do, it is easy to create sustainable heartfelt connections with great sexuality. More people than ever are caught in Romantic mythology euphoria, where they cannot make decisions for fear that something better will show up.

We need to re-educate ourselves about what to strive for and how to establish our priorities. The priority needs to be co-creative Communion, effortless Communication, equal Decision-Making and synergistic Alignment. When we join a partner in an aligned learning processes we are uplifted and enhanced. We grow as we practice—with our friends, romantic and business partners (not sexual partners). Co-Creative projects, where we show up doing what we love, automatically attracts others to us. As we upgrade the quality of the people in our lives they become important in guiding us to our ultimate partners. Our consciousness becomes a way to refine and clarify our gifts. We can make huge impacts through small acts of kindness. It all begins when we choose the best people with whom to invest our lives.

Conscious, Complete Love

When we personalize love, we compromise ourselves. Radiant Self Unifying Love is Transpersonal in nature. It is about teambuilding and expanding wholeness by by giving and receiving to our partners. When we do not love ourselves, particularly our creative nature, we have little to contribute to others. It is the joy, delight and abundance of our Love that makes it healing. When we creatively love ourselves, our contributions are based upon our Relationship Skills and our Authentic Life Expression. We show up participating without the need for roles, attachments, positions of power or acknowledgements. When we creatively deny ourselves, we choose partners based on need, not opportunity. We get caught up in attempts to earn love and do not realize that we need to ‘be’ Love. If we want to create loving partnerships we need to be creatively loving beings. Learn the importance of Creative Self Love in attracting great partners! Get a creative assessment performed so you can read all about yourself (if you have not already) to prepare for this class.